It’s hard to believe we’re already in the midst of holiday celebrations. For some, this time of year is a happy, family-filled celebration. Others dread the thought of being with family. No matter how you feel, if you’re also facing an unexpected pregnancy, it can be overwhelming.
Don’t worry. We have some constructive ways to handle nosy aunts and judgmental siblings. If you need someone to talk to before attending family gatherings, we’re here for you. Give us a call at (760) 789-7059 or text us at (619) 348-5131.
You Don’t Owe Anyone an Explanation
The most important thing to remember is that this is your pregnancy, and how you handle it is your decision. Don’t feel pressured to explain anything to anyone.
Feel free to say, “I really don’t want to talk about it,” if someone asks what you’re going to do. The key is to set boundaries wherever possible. Inform the person hosting the event that you do not intend to discuss your pregnancy.
Keep a Trusted Friend or Family Member Close By
If family members aren’t aware but suspect something, have someone you trust stay close to you. They’ll help you feel like you’re not taking on questions and comments alone.
A trusted friend or family member can also steer conversations in another direction.
Recognize That Pregnancy Symptoms May Affect You
Early pregnancy symptoms include fatigue, nausea, and mood swings. It’s essential to recognize that any one of these symptoms can make it more difficult to participate in family get-togethers.
If you’re not feeling well, tired, or emotional, it could affect how you respond to others. Allow yourself the freedom to bow out of events, leave early, or have a moment to yourself.
Determine Ahead of Time How Much You Wish to Share
Although it may not go as planned, it helps to decide ahead of time what you are willing to share and what you don’t want to talk about. If you and others are excited about your pregnancy, feel free to celebrate.
If your pregnancy is a disappointment to your family, remember that you are the only one to decide the outcome. No one can or should force you to make one decision over another as to how to handle it.
Talk With a Caring Advocate
If you need guidance on your options, please schedule a time to speak with us. We can review your situation and discuss your options with you. It costs nothing to talk with us.
At Ramona Women’s Clinic, we never want you to feel like you’re facing an unexpected pregnancy alone. We are here for you.
Speak with one of our client advocates about your pregnancy, options, or how to deal with those pesky relatives this holiday season. We’re in your corner.
