Usually, friends give advice because they want to help, but sometimes their suggestions feel more like demands. You need the support of friends and family to help you through an unexpected pregnancy, but too much advice is stressful.
You are the only one who can decide how to handle your pregnancy. No one has the authority to force you to make one decision over another, and you’re wise to take your time to learn about your options.
An abortion is a deeply personal decision. The Ramona Women’s Clinic team understands the importance of the choice you need to make. We can review all your options. Call or text us to schedule your free, confidential appointment today.
What Are My Options?
You actually have three options: have an abortion, make an adoption plan, or choose to parent.
The way to make a confident decision is to learn as much as possible about each option. We can give you information about all three.
Have an Abortion
How many weeks you’ve been pregnant usually determines the abortion procedure you qualify for. Do you know the exact gestational age?
The FDA approves the use of abortion drugs (the abortion pill method) through 10 weeks of pregnancy only. The further along you are, the less effective the drugs are.
Because you take abortion drugs in your home without medical oversight, it’s vital to know what to expect in terms of side effects and potential risks. A surgical procedure is more invasive and, in many cases, more expensive.
Make an Adoption Plan
Many women don’t consider placing their child for adoption because they aren’t aware of the changes made in the adoption process. Today, the expectant mother or birth mother makes all of the decisions.
She chooses the couple who will raise her child and the future she hopes her child will have. Today, a birth mother can continue a relationship with her child depending on the type of adoption plan she chooses.
Adoption services are free. When you choose a reputable, licensed adoption coordinator, you will receive thorough counseling, medical care, legal representation, and, in some cases, other pregnancy-related expenses.
Choosing to Parent
Parenting your child is both challenging and rewarding. When considering parenthood, determine what support you have and what you will need. For instance, will your parents or your partner help you financially or emotionally? Where will you live, and what about child care?
The answers to all of these questions may be easier than you thought. There are many community services to assist you. At Ramona Women’s Clinic, we provide educational opportunities and material assistance.
Talk With Ramona Women’s Clinic First
Before you decide, talk with one of our caring peer advocates first. There is so much more to know about each of your choices.
Although we do not perform or refer for abortion, we’re not afraid to talk about it. We’ll give you factual, medically based information on all procedures and the possible consequences.
We can provide referrals to adoption specialists who can answer your questions and to the many community services available to you.
More than anything, we want you to know you are not alone as you make this decision. No matter what you choose, we’re here to provide the care and support you need.
Let’s talk about your situation. Call us at (760) 789-7059 or text us at (619) 348-5131. We’re here for you.
All abortion information sourced in this blog is based on accurate information at the time of writing.
